Heal yourself, change your relationship
Ashburton, United Kingdom
How I support my clients
Heal yourself, change your relationship.
I hear people say: ‘Why should I heal myself? My partner needs to change!’ But have you noticed that even when you change a partner, you keep facing the same issues in a different relationship? Here’s what happens when you don’t heal yourself first:
- You waste a lot of time on therapies that deal with the symptoms and not the cause.
- You’re never being fully yourself in a relationship.
- True happiness feels beyond your reach.
It doesn’t have to be that way though. When you do the inner work, you feel more safety, trust and deeper connection.
- someone who has achieved a lot in life, but there’s still something missing in your personal life?
- feeling a bit like an imposter, wondering how you can shine in your career when you can’t fix your own relationship
- open to the kind of work that will help to get to the bottom of any unhealthy relationship patterns and release them for good?
- ready to live fully and have both happy family life and successful career?
You know you have all the potential in the world to have it all.
But you’re holding yourself back at home. You may be hiding and withholding your true thoughts and feelings, going along to get along, suppressing anger and avoiding discomfort in having difficult conversations.
- If you were criticised as a child and felt unsafe to express your wants, it’s likely to play out in your present day relationship(s).
- If you experienced a heartbreak in your previous relationship(s), it’s likely to stop you opening up to your partner and trusting him fully (if you can even let yourself to have a partner).
- If you were ever abandoned, rejected or betrayed by anyone, those experiences are likely to get in the way of your trust.
To change these patterns you need to understand how the past affects your present.
Are you ready to find out what’s really undermining your relationship? Then you’re in the right place.
To me, it’s a simple equation: heal the past = change the present = empower your future.
Specialties/Areas Gulara Supports:
Health, Money, Purpose/Mission/Impact, Relationship, Spiritual
Hi, I’m Gulara, your relationship and trauma healing coach.
My passion is to empower women in their relationship(s) so that they can live up to their fullest potential at home and in their careers. I can help you to heal any unhealthy, dysfunctional or toxic patterns in your relationships, so that you can enjoy the love you deserve. Together we co-create magic. Random things about me
- I live in rural Dartmoor national park in South England with my two young children and the love of my life.
- I’m the author of international bestseller Hammer, Sickle & Broom: A Memoir of Intergenerational Trauma in Azerbaijan
- I passed my PhD in Law without a single correction in 2010. My examiner was Professor Paul Craig, the God of EU law at the University of Oxford.
- I come from a small city in Azerbaijan. I moved to England when I was 30.
- English is my 4th language. I learnt it reading Agatha Christie’s mystery novels with an aid of a small dictionary.
- I taught law for 19 years first in Azerbaijan and then at the University of Birmingham in the UK. I still teach, but I’ve changed the subject and the classroom.
- I’ve given birth to two beautiful children (both arrived via emergency C-section).
- I’ve never met my dad. I was brought up by my maternal grandparents.
- I love dancing and people who know me well say that I have a wicked sense of humour
- Everything I teach comes from my lived experience. When it comes to healing, I walk my talk.
Compassion Key: Master
Non-Personal Awareness technique;
Reiki 1 and 2
Identity-oriented Psychotrauma Therapy
Session Price: $280
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Tuesday: 5:00-6:00am; 9am-10am and 1:30-2:30pm
Wednesday: 9am-10am; 2:00pm-3:00pm
Reviews from Gulara 's Clients
By far the most impactful session ever experienced in my life. It feels like all my unanswered questions in this life, complicated patterns and scattered insights were brought together – healed- in a very clear and powerful way… I saw things I never understood fall into alignement, it was amazing how so many aspects were revealed and covered and given the perfect compassion! Gulara is beyond safe, beyond loving and beyond gifted in her facilitations and service. A 1000% recommendation, with ease and grace ♥️ Thank you so much
My session with Gulara was amazing, it was beyond all my expectations. Before the session i thought of what to say, what i want to clear and so on but there was no need for that at all. From the beginning of the session she took me to a smooth clearing journey and she was so professional and so precise, at one point i felt like she could read my mind 🙂 I was so suprised and impressed by the accuracy of the clearing statements. I repeated the English clearing statements in Turkish and that was a nice warm conversation between us. I was lucky that she knew Turkish and translated few words when i couldn’t remember 🙂 I definitely recommend Gulara’s beautiful guidance. Thank you so much Gulara 🙏🏻❤️
She is a brilliant soul into a beautiful kind woman.
I felt perfectly guide into the deepest secrets of my own being to reach a profound state of calmness, safety, recognition and love.
Deeply gratitude to you and your work Gulara 🙏🏼
Oh wow…that was the most beautiful heart centered healing session I had with Gulara. Her kind eyes, voice and compassionate energy and spot on intuition just helped melt the ice that had frozen in my heart and felt so dark and heavy. For the first time I feel free and relieved, heard, seen, safe. It’s a beautiful feeling and I can’t wait to see what unfolds in the next few days. Absolutely grateful for this session.
Gulara embodies her life mission: KINDNESS… and it came through in her inspired ISS statements as she tuned into my being to help me clear the stuck pain, terror, shock, and imprints of unworthiness held in my physical and emotional bodies. Thank you Gulara!
Session was very helpful around why I had become resigned at a pre-verbal age around my role here on this planet.
I had a wonderful session with Gulara.
I felt safe and understood.
Thanks to Gulara’s intuitive presence and nurturing approach I was able to achieve more clarity about what is in the way between me and the full expression of my gifts.
The session was absolutely incredible, I was dazed afterwards. I felt more seen than I’ve even been able to see myself. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for going that deep with me
Gulara knew exactly what to say/do. We started with two issues I had on finances and relationships rooted on my family system. And so we spent a whole hour healing nonstop. At the end my inner child & highest self gifted us with a blessing I’ll never forget. Gulara’s experience and intuition are just amazing.
I am grateful for the clarity and depth of my session.
We went really deep on many fragmented inner child wounds to help clear my skin and I can already see a huge difference. I highly recommend booking a session with Gulara!
Gulara is so perceptive and extremely attentive in the sessions we have had together. She holds the space for me to evolve through a very complex web of trauma and karma. She is always interested in my achieving the best out of this life, is never judgemental and I always feel safe and very loved
Absolutely wonderful session. I’ve tried a lot of different kind of healing and this was by far one of the most powerful if not the most powerful experience.
I felt Gulara was able to address the issues so accurately and find the right words that really hit the spot. I released a lot and felt many things were shifted during the session. Can’t wait to see how it develops into concrete changes in my life.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart, Gulara. All love to you.
Gulara helped me through a very deep and magical clearing about relationship patterns. Amazing session.
It was wonderful to have worked with Gulara. I felt safe to express more on how and what I was processing during the session with vulnerability, with some tears of release and felt so much lighter and relieved with more love for myself. I just felt safe being my true self without feeling judged and this allowed me to open up with the intend to heal all the childhood wounds of feeling unloved, bring back any soul fragments, and self-loathing etc so that I embody my true self and reclaim my Goddess self with feeling soul aligned in my life and purpose with more wholeness, feminine energy, grace and joy.
Gulara has facilitated a beautiful healing session. Thank you!
Wow, wow, wow!! What a journey that was…to heal an enormous amount of toxicity from my family, going all the way back to my 5 year old little girl. This was by far the most intense amount of stagnant energy release and shifts I’ve ever experienced in the 8 years of doing the work!! I feel light like a feather floating on a cloud.
It solidifies my presence here in this program!!
Absolutely, highly recommend working with Gulara. Thank you, thank you, thank you 🙏💚
OH MY GOODNESS! She’s a gem! I’m a healer myself and I was mind (and heart-) blown by my session with Gulara! First, she was SPOT ON with every sentence she guided me through. Second, I’ve been working on the exact same traumas for 8 years and yet Gulara was able to take it even deeper and connect all my life’s “issues” and address them in one single session! I felt like everything was coming back together… that I was coming back to myself, which is the most precious experience. If your eyes glanced at her name even more than 1 second, don’t doubt, book her. You canNOT be disappointed!
Gulara is a warm, caring and gifted woman. I am very grateful for her work and skills.
This was my first compassion key session, and I’ve been doing transformational / shamanic healing work for the last 12 years and the process with Gulara was very deeply impactful. I was able to bridge the tensions of opposites, see where I have a split, how to bring them back into one, and also process a lot of unresolved trauma. Gulara is very heartfelt and inspirational. From first glance, I immediately felt calm and connected and knew we were going to get into some deep waters. One of my biggest reasons why I do not seek support from others is because when I do, I am often felt like the support wasn’t supportive. So I am then supporting the other person to support me. And I feel very supported working with Gulara, I will be doing more sessions with her. If you have been stuck, feeing low, or looking for a legitimate healer and an impactful healing process then you made it! Grant yourself the permission to feel your feels with Gulara. Thank you for your humble service and returning fragments to wholeness.
Thank you for a beautiful second session Gulara! I continue to benefit greatly from your support and care and I feel very empowered to continue my healing journey.
Gulara is amazing at directing the session as to get the most potent powerful releases. She is spot on with the phrases needed to clear what needs clearing. Thank you ever so much Gulara you are a gift to this world
Gulara was able to guide me straight into the heart of the trans-generational core wound that I’ve been clearing for my soul group in parallel family systemic constellations for over 5 yrs now. Her ability to direct your system to exactly the pivotal crux of a longstanding issue is absolutely remarkable, and she’ll guide you through the purification process with such loving care. If you are ready to go deep inside of your ancestral Family Line, I highly recommend her professional skill sets to navigate primal release!
As always, a session with Gulara is always amazing. So skillful, so insightful, so compassionate
Had a terrific session with Gulara which really resonated with my deep issues and gave me clarity and moved me to a place where I could connect with the possibility of so much more. Even just recognising that in one session was amazing. Felt she connected to my higher self and soul woundings right from the start. Thank you Gulara. Xx
Gulara is very talented & identifies the charged energy to work through & release. Thank you
I am sharing those words shortly after my second session. So I am in my rebalancing phase. Emotional about how much time we all loose through being highjacked by falls believes. Life is so beautiful and precious, we shouldn’t waste our next breath on believing or acting differently. Gulara‘s work is very precisely helping you with whatever stands in your way. She sees your blindspots and reminds you of the ones, you know, that need more attention. Our subconsciouness is an ocean and no matter how much you know about navigating your ocean of feelings through wisdom or intuition, having a compass to look on is of benefits. Gulara is like that compass. Giving you direction and focus. Her calm and her love is making it easy for yourself to let down your guard and have a look at yourself. No sense of judgement in the air. A great amount of compassion for what is, so you can move through and beyond.
Gulara is an Angel. She seamlessly combines several modalities into the perfect flow to address what is present, in the powerful space of unconditional compassion. I am in awe with her skills and intuition. She is genius at pinpointing the core issue and clearing on all levels. Thank you so much Gulara.
Gulara is straight to the point in a extremly gentle manner, knowing her way to navigate the different layers of stagnate energy. She saw something from my childhood i never thought, would be the reason for a major pattern. She saw it without me talking about it. I am very greatful.
My sessions with Gulara have resolved and illuminated some core issues which I have needed to release to go on and do the work I love with clarity and focus. As I told her on our last session – I feel like a completely different person from when we began!
I felt in very safe hands with Gulara. She guided me wonderfully through the session, held space beautifully and was very intuitive. I’d highly recommend.
Gulara is exceptionally gifted to lead the client (me) right to the heart of the matter. I felt at ease and totally supported by her skills. I intuitively picked her and she went beyond my highest expectations. I would love to set more appointments with her. She’s that good.
Gulara is amazing! I LOVED our session. She’s warm and welcoming while also able to quickly pinpoint and unlock the exact area to work on. Gulara creates a powerful space of safety and love that allows you to access and navigate hidden aspects that need clearing on a profound level. Towards the end of our session, a channel cleared and opened up in my throat, and afterwards I started singing and doing vocal warm-ups I hadn’t done in years! Beautiful shifts have taken place since. I’m so very grateful for Gulara and her gifts.
I feel so blessed that Gulara was my pro facilitator! I felt heard, seen and felt many tons of stuff melt. I also appreciate the training it provided me. Thank you, thank you, thank you and lots of love, Tree
A.M.A.Z.I.N.G! I have been on a spiritual and healing path for a while now but my session with Gulara was one of the most productive, unveiling and healing I have had. I knew exactly what I wanted to address (a past life memory) but she took me on an emotional journey throughout not one, but many lives, all the way to this life and unveiled other issues I current have (and had never told her). The session was super productive and the flow was amazing, it’s like she could read my mind and feel my heart through those memories. I feel like I released centuries of heavy Karmic negative energy out of my body. Even my physical pain is gone. I’m very grateful for her healing gifts!
Deep intuitive session on early life + past lives
I felt a lot of releasing and crying to the point of exhaustion. I slept very soundly during the night for 7 hours without waking up, which is very unusual for me, and I woke feeling joyful. this after such along time of despair and waking up dreading the day ahead (a very long time). I am so grateful and looking forward to the further developments during this period of integration ❤️
I had an amazing session with Gulara on issues that I have been working on for some time, but she was able to untangle the different but connected threads. It felt like they had all become knotted in a ball but are now unravelled and smoothed out. So many situations, issues and memories seemed to get ticked off as we were moving through the session. I feel like a low level of anxiety has disappeared and that the emotional charge on a lot of memories has gone as well. I have also been experiencing real ‘to the bone’ tiredness, to the point that I could hardly walk up the stairs to bed. That went instantly. I feel like I have renewed energy and motivation. I also had a phrase ‘what’s the point’ going around my head before the session. Now when I try to find those words they are simply not there. Thank you very much Gulara. I would highly recommend a session for anyone. It is very powerful and transformative. Natasha P
My session with Gulara was so powerful. Before l even logged on l was feeling very emotional about what l’d written for us to focus on.
Literally went straight into the session after sharing just a little.
My inner child felt so safe with her, l shifted so much trauma.
Im feeling wiped out right now, l do have so much more understanding and compassion towards myself right now and have been continuing to experience lots of emotions arising. I felt her love, care & compassion towards me during the whole session.
I will not forget this experience…..
I had a beautiful session with Gulara, who is a fountain of empathy and compassion… she held a beautifully warm and grounded space for me as she guided me inwards to work on some deeply wounded parts of myself. In Gulara’s presence I was finally able to hold and (truly) accept my wounded inner child properly for the first time… this was an incredibly healing and beautiful experience which I will never forget.
Also, Gulara was very understanding of the fact that I did not want to speak the source of my painful wound aloud, yet she still managed to intuit and guide me through deeper and deeper layers of healing connected to this wound.
Thank you Gulara, for seeing and hearing me so that I could journey inwards to see, hear, and accept myself.
I wholeheartedly recommend Gulara to anyone who is seeking a safe and nurturing space for deep healing.
my last two sessions with Gulara have been so powerful that I’ve need time to process and am still processing. I am so grateful for her intuition and skill in helping me to access parts of myself that have been so repressed for decades. I can see how debilitating they have been and I am look forward to see how things emerge. Thank you so much for helping me during such a dark night of the soul.
I felt so seen by Gulara and that I could say anything to her .I felt so much taller after the session and I had a breakthrough in my power and in my relationship tonight because of it .
My session with Gulara was so powerful. Gulara has such a kind, warm and reassuring personality. I was worried I wouldn’t know what issues to raise and that I wouldn’t feel any shifts. Gulara was so understanding and in the end with her guidance and support all sorts of issues just naturally came up and we dealt with them all. I’d really recommend a session with Gulara.
My session with Gulara was so beautifully and compassionately held. It was such a relief to be supported safely and to be deeply understood. I had so much energy moving for me, the depth of which I am sure I will continue to discover in the coming days. For now I feel lighter, calmer, safer in my body and grounded. Thank you Gulara!
I’ve had really good session with Gulara. It was a wonderful experience. It has shifted a lot of energy in my body during session and gave me some very helpful insights. Thank you!
this is the second time I have worked with Gulara. a big thank you…your intuition, perception and compassion continues to be a help in getting through difficult periods
My session with Gulara was beautiful. She held the space with strength and compassion and we landed on some potent areas I needed (and still need to) pay attention to, and heal.
It was really great to have walked away with a bit more clarity on what is running underneath and what the patterns are and where they may have started. I always find it overwhelming where to start, so this session gave me some anchors to work with. Thank you Gulara 🙏🏾
Incredible and powerful, Gulara was intuitive and caring in the session… bought me deep into the space. Amazing work. Highly recommend….
Gulara was a very compassionate, non-judgmental soul with the ability to speak calmly and gently to the wounded aspect of myself. So grateful to have had the opportunity to share with her some of my most darkest secrets. I trust that she will keep it confidential. She provided a safe place for me to open my heart and express my true feelings and repeating traumas. Many blessings to all who receive a session with Gulara.
Gulara’s attunement was like a laser to what I needed to address. I released so much from my body, sedimented pain and past life memories that I could never get to the core of. I am still integrating the work but it was definitely beyond my expectations…Felt so much light in my body at the end…So grateful for coming across this practice.
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